Reflections of 2008

Oh what a year 2008 has been.

- In early April, I had to put down our beloved dog, Shasta--she was almost 15.
- In July I discovered a lump in my breast.
- In August, it was diagnosed as cancer.
- In September a week before surgery--the goldfish died.
- In September and October surgeries.
- In October chemo was started and continues.

Ok, this can all sound like self-pity, but I choose to look at all of these things with a positive spin.

- Shasta led a fantastic life--she spent great times at our cabin, chasing deer, playing in the snow, swimming in every lake, river, creek she encountered and even went river rafting. She gave us so much joy and companionship. But in her last few months she was failing--and in reality I could not have cared for her thru my ordeal.
- The fish died unexpectedly, but again who knows about a fish--he too had a good life. And I couldn't take care of him either.
- I was diagnosed with cancer--fortunately in an early stage--so I feel very lucky. As the doctors have said, for all they know it is gone, but we need to continue with treatments to insure that.
- I have had such support and assistance from friends and family--it is so heartwarming. And I know it has helped me recover so well.

So I think this has been one heck of a year. Of course, I look forward to 2009 and all the treaments being behind me--but 2008 has been memorable and in retrospect, fortunate for me.

I wish you all the best for 2009!

P.S. We have a deposit on a labrador puppy, hopefully arriving in the spring!

Chemo--Round 5

Today I start the last half (yeah!) of chemo with a different drug, Taxol. It is not supposed to be as harsh in terms of no nausea complications--so no drugs for me to take afterwards. The treatment today willl take a little longer, as I have to be watched for any reaction during administration.

So again, I am bolstering my courage--thank you Diana for the help with my parents, Cindy for the New Year message, Cheryl for the card that I have on my bulletin board to reread, and Corinne for the soup .

Yesterday, I saw my doctor as I always do before treatment and she asked me if I had a nice Christmas. I said, yes, I had a really nice Christmas. She said that these treatments are your insurance for all your future Christmas'. I said--oh, you are right! So, I am off...to make another payment on my insurance!

Thank you,
Sharon

Fireworks in 2009!

Sharon,

This week marks your fifth round of chemo, how time flies for those of us not going through treatment:-)  As always, we are thinking of you Tuesday.

We just know 2009 will bring health, happiness and peace for you and your family (not to mention all the fireworks you so richly deserve)!    

Christmas Week Countdown

I am feeling better now, after treatment week--glad that my 'good' week falls during the Christmas week. Fortunately, I don't have much to do this week, other than some cooking. I seem to be obsessed with cooking (and trying new recipes) when I can't even taste things very well--strange?

Teri thought I needed to have a picture of my new 'do' on the blog--since everyone thought I was walking around with blue hair--although that got lots of positive feedback! Thanks Teri and Paula.

I hope all of you are able to celebrate the week with your family members back from schools and hockey teams! Wishing you all the best for a fabulous Christmas and holiday season.

Of course, there is another reason to celebrate--and that is Cheryl's birthday!! Oh, and John Paulazzo too!

Love and thanks to all,
Sharon

What did Billy Crystal used to say?

You look fabulous!! (Actually Sharon and Paula both look fabulous as seen in the attached picture.)

To Sharon, her family and friends ... wishing you all a wonderful holiday.

Chemo--Round 4!!

Yes, that means I am half way through--so it is all downhill from here. I was wiped out after treatment, so ate dinner, soaked in the tub, was in bed by 7:15 and slept until 5:30 a.m. Got up today and saw the blogs posted from Monday--Loved the Santa and poem by Cindy--it made me laugh and shed a couple of tears! You all are so clever in your support. I love you!!

Going to get me white blood cell booster shot today--and hopefully get some shopping done before that!

Love and thanks to all,
Sharon

A Little Holiday "Cheer"!

Sharon,

You've been such a good girl  

I know your life's been a whirl

No matter your aches

You handle it all with such grace

Come Tuesday you're half way done

Maybe you can begin to see the sun

Just thought I'd drop by

And give a little "treat" to your eye

I'd invite you to sit on my lap

But perhaps it would be safer to take a nap:-)

Ho Ho Ho

It's a Beautiful Thing

I got my house cleaned yesterday--thanks to all of you who have contributed for that purpose. It is just so wonderful to have the entire house clean at once! I really appreciate it--as I know I am not capable of doing a lot of those chores--and it is beyond the men in my house!

This is my 'good' week after feeling tired and achey last weekend after treatment week. Again, these are just steps to recovery.

Happy Birthday to Kathy Raeside, last weekend and my sister-in-law, Corinne, last week!

Brad comes home from school this weekend for 3 weeks and we are decorated for Xmas.

Thanks and love to all,
Sharon

Yes, Chemo Round 3

I made it through just fine. My appointment was late, so didn't get home until after 6 p.m. Fortunately, a dinner was waiting for us--thank you Vicky G.! I fell asleep right after dinner on the couch, dragged myself to bed about 9 and woke up about 4 a.m. Decided to get up and get some more fluids going through my body to wash the chemicals out. Again, no nausea, just a mild headache--oh well.
As I figure it, I'm more than 1/3 through this! Way to go!
Have a great day,
Sharon

Another Day at the Beach...

...in our dreams!

Hoping your next round of Chemo goes as well as your past two.

Happy Thanksgiving to All

Thanks, Teri--loved the turkey! It has been two months since I started all of this. I have come a long way--from not being able to lift my head off the pillow after my surgery--to being back at work and back to a routine. Of course, I credit my recovery and give thanks to all of you who provided support with cards, emails, visits, gifts, nourishing food, thoughts, blogs, and prayers. It has been overwhelming. I am so lucky and blessed.

My family will be coming here for Thanksgiving dinner. We will make the turkey, potatoes, stuffing and gravy--they all bring the rest. I hope it turns out well, since my sense of taste is whacked from the chemo! Brad is home from UCSB--I haven't seen him since I was in the hospital--so it is so good to have him home with us.

I wish you all a wonderful Thanksgiving with friends and family. Enjoy a few days off before we begin the Christmas rush.

Love and thanks to all,
Sharon

Happy Thanksgiving!!

Sharon & Friends

Wishing you all a wonderful Thanksgiving!

It WILL grow back!

Thursday night we did the deed. My hair was starting to fall out. Everyone that has gone through this has advised it is better to just get it over with rather than deal with bunches of hair everywhere. So Matt got his hair trimmer out and shaved me to a #2 to match his length. We took a picture together for fun. Although alot of people were having way to much fun with this whole procedure. Nadine, at work, wanted me to shave it into a mohawk and die it blue! Oh, the blue wig definitely won out in the contest.
Matt has offered, if I also lose my eyebrows, I can have his fake 'real hair' mustache from Halloween, cut it in two and stick it on. I have so much support!
However, I did get a wig yesterday that really looks pretty good. So now I have options of wig, hats or scarves--depending on my mood. Hope you will be able to recognize me.
It sure is cold without a head of hair!!
Oh, and I made it through another chemo treatment and again did not get sick. I am very fortunate.
Love to all,
Sharon
Love to all,

Chemo--Round 2

Thanks for all of your feedback on the wigs...I think the blue won out! Since I will be hair challenged by the end of the week...we'll see what I end up with! Probably will change as the mood strikes me.

Off today for round 2 of chemo--I plan to do as well as I did last time. Thanks for the bathing beauty visual Cindy--looking forward to the fun.

I started back to work last week, my mind was pretty foggy the first day, but it has gotten better and am getting back in the swing. Thanks for everyone at Sous Kitchen for being so supportive. It's good to feel productive again.

Thanks and love to all,
Sharon

Now That's a Visual!

Looks like the vote is "a toss up", blond or blue you look great!
Thought you could use a happy visual for tomorrow. Pacman is forever changed since Cheryl posted Tattoo Pacman.
Maybe you could bring your laptop and research our tropical vacation or we could look like this by the time we go:-) Although I have to admit it looks like fun!
We are thinking about you...

Vote for your favorite!

Here's your chance--vote for your favorite! You only have a week or so to decide!

Back to work??

Hope it went well today Sharon!

Sharon... I don't know about you...but this is the pac man image I had in mind for you when you get your treatments!!

Unleash the PacMan

Take that you stinking cancer cells!!

1st Treatment is Over

Well the first chemo infusion went well. The procedure took 3 hours--took nausea medicine before treatment and have others to take at home. However, I never felt any nausea, but did take medicine a couple of times so as not to get nauseous. I have to take some anti-nausea medications for the next 3 days in the morning, but haven't taken anything else today--so far so good. I just hope it stays this way. I went in today to get a shot to boost my white blood cell count--this is the normal procedure for they day after chemo. And so far no side effects from that either.

So all is going smoothly!!!! Go get 'em PacMan!
Love to all,
Sharon

Phase 1 is over, on to Phase 2

I made it through Phase 1--the surgery! Its been 6 weeks and have healed really well. This past week, everyone that has seen me commented that I was really looking good. They said you would never know I had been through such a surgery. All my doctors seem to be impressed too. I still have areas of numbness--and I hope a lot of that will go away over time.

I am now entering Phase 2--chemo. I met with the oncologist today and got my instructions for medications to alleviate the nausea. Treatment starts on Tuesday. She said this will be the hardest treatment--since it is new to my psyche and my body! Yes, I am a bit nervous--but my plan is to get through this as easily as possible. I will have chemo every 2 weeks for a total of 8 treatments.

I am packing a carry-all bag (which a friend made for me) with entertainment items to pass the time during the treament (3 hours for the first time). My cousins and Aunt & Uncle sent me a box of goodies including EASY crossword and sudoku puzzles (how did they know my level?), protien bars, magazines, a DVD, slippers, candles and candy! I am always so surprised at the items everyone has provided, they are all so useful. So the time should pass quickly. Marc is coming with me.

So I will let you know in the upcoming days how it is going.

With thanks and love to all,
Sharon

Enjoy the day!

Wishing you (& Obama) the best tomorrow Sharon. Try to focus on some image that makes your smile and remember to breathe. Think about Ms. Pacman chewing up all the little ghosts -- chemo will be doing that for you. BTW, did you buy a hot pink wig like Samantha from Sex in the City?

I'm on my own!

It's my first day with Marc back at work. It will be a little strange, but I was so lucky that he was able to have all this time off.

Last week I had a chemo education lesson. Learned what to expect and how to prevent any nasty side effects. So that will start on Tuesday, 11/4--yeah, election day!

I also met with a radiologist, because the powers that be, think it would be in my best interest to have that too. That will happen after the chemo is complete.

Oh, I also went wig shopping! My friend, Cindy, went with me--wanted another opinion. It was kind of fun to try on different styles and colors to see what looked the best. It would be great if when you went to get your haircut--you could try styles before you got the cut!

The big news for the day is--my Mom is 91 today! And another beautiful fall day.
Thanks and love to all,
Sharon

Fall wonders!

This is how I remember Virginia. I found this on the web, but you could swear this is Cheryl's backyard!

I'll have to take out the camera and capture the true fall beauty of California

Appreciation to all of you

What a delightful treat it has been to recieve dinners from friends that go way back to my sons' preschool days. Our preschool, Open Gate Nursery School, a co-op preschool, was such a wonderful experience for our children. However, what I have learned, I thought we went there for my children, but what we got was a life-long community of caring, giving, and sharing people. Although, we have stayed in touch through occasional reunions--the generosity and support has been heart warming and I am humbled.
Another group of friends I developed, again came by way of my boys! I met them through our elementary and middle school associations. I met their parents in like activities: PTA, school clean-ups, fundraisers, sports, etc. Of course, never realizing the personal benefits would reach this far.
All other friends have been made through work associations--who knew?
My other supporters are my family, near and far. They are just stuck with me through fate! I am very fortunate.
I just want you all to know how lucky I feel to have you all providing support throughout this time. It has been so helpful, I can't put it in words.

Okay, down to business. I have just seen 3 doctors, in the last 3 days. All is healing well and we are on to the next part--chemo. My first round will be in 2 weeks. There will be a total of 8 sessions over the course of 16 weeks.
Thanks and love to all,
Sharon

How right you are Cindy!

Friends and family are integral to happiness and health.

During my last evening in Gent. I went on a boat tour on the canals. Joining the boat I was on, was this group of women, laughing, sharing secrets and history. (I know this not because of what they were saying - they were speaking Dutch, but because of their mannerisms.) They reminded me so much of what I have heard about your "book club" and adventures. I did not ask to take their picture - so you will understand why they are not looking at me.

All You Need Is Love...

If that were true, you would be all set!

Letting you know we are all thinking about you and sending our love your way. They say it takes a village; what a wonderful village of family and friends you are surrounded by.

So get out and take a walk (with your camera, I am certain you can get a picture of a fall leaf on here before Cheryl and her darn Virgina Fall Colors:-) and enjoy this beautiful weather.

Sunshine arrives in Gent

After several days of very overcast and drizzly weather which I am used to since I live in San Francisco, the sun came out today. After sitting in the conference all day and deciding to return to the hotel to rest a bit, I only managed to get lost twice. The first time, I ended up back tracking to the conference site. After the adrenaline burst of thinking that I was lost, I decided I was no longer sleepy and I should walk to a place that was recommended for Belgian waffles. (I am not a particularly big fan of waffles, but my extended family kept telling me I should try one since I was in Belgium.) Of course, I got lost again. (Gent is not that big, but the streets go every which way.) This turned out to be a blessing as well and not just because I saw more of the city this way. I had been on the hunt for pepernoten (some kind of small ginger cookie that gets thrown at Sinterklaasavond on Dec 5th - but you make them way in advance) for my brother's family and I was having no luck. But on this last trek of getting lost, I found a bakery that had them. (Of course, at first they didn't know what I was asking for because they didn't speak English and I don't speak Dutch -- they thought I was asking for popcorn! In the end, they realized I was asking pepernoten not popcorn and that they had them in back of the bakery.)

So the waffle was probably great (but I am still not a huge fan). Much sweeter than I thought (even without any topping) and nothing like the waffles at home.


A couple more pictures to prove that there was sunshine. (I am staying in the hotel that is about 5 buildings down on the left side of the canal.)

So a beautiful Friday here ... I understand it is supposed to be beautiful in California today (and I am going to think positive for Cheryl in Virginia as well). Positive seems to be the name of the game .... right Sharon?

Give a needy person a free mammogram

hi all,

One of my other best girlfriends is also a cancer survivor. She has sent me an eCard on how we can all sponsor a person in need to receive a free mammogram. Go to the site below and click on the 'Click Here to Give - it's FREE' button and you'll be helping someone in need!

http://www.thebreastcancersite.com/clickToGive

Another beatiful day

Glad to see you made it Teri, and have already seen so many sights. I am impressed with your iphone pictures. What's the time difference, 8 hours? Is your ankle OK?
I went out for a walk around the block yesterday--by myself--and came back 6 blocks later! It felt great--my legs wanted to run--but the rest of my body told me walking was just fine.
Marc and I are going to take some food up to my parents for lunch today. We went shopping to Trader Joe's today--first time shopping in a month (don't miss it) but was kind of looking at the items and thinking of things I could make, and then again, the body says--who are you kidding?
Another beautiful fall day--to rival Virginia--no hot air baloons though...
Thanks and love to all,
Sharon

Hallo, Hoi, Dag, Goedendag ... Hello from Gent

I made it to Belgium in spite of being a poor traveler. I even found the conference venue which I have to be at in about an hour. I registered for the meeting -- where they gave us chocolate.

People say I am not a good tourist, but today (conference starts at 6pm), I went to The Castle of the Counts, St. Michael's Bridge, St. Bavo's Cathedral, The Belfry, Sint-Baafskathedraal, The Belfry, Sint-Niklaaskerk, Mason's Guild Hall, Design Museum and Vrijdagmarket. (That is not the order I went ... I went to one more church, but can't find its name at the moment.) Turns out the streets change names, are in a bit of a web-like pattern and I can't read the names anyway. Several times, no matter what direction I came from, I ended up back at the Design Museum. So I decided I better go in or I would continue to find myself in front of it; it was quite interesting.

Here are a few pictures (I didn't take that many because I forgot to bring a camera - so I used the iphone). I told Kasey the one that cracked me up (which is why I took a picture) is the McDonald's (nope -- didn't eat there). And yes, the sky is that gray.

Now get up and walk for the day Sharon --- you should be waking up soon and reading your blog. Then laying down and taking a nap :-)

Ready when you are

Cheryl, you give me 6 maybe 8 months--and I'm ready to go! My cousin, Melanie, shared beautiful scenery pictures from all around the world--what a beautiful planet--still so much to see and do....
I have to admit by last evening (Monday night) I was feeling a little stir crazy. Couldn't get comfortable--limited to sitting with arm propped up or laying with arm propped up and just plain tired of it all--just being impatient!! After a good night's sleep, (found a way to sleep on my side for a while!) I feel pretty good and it is a beautiful fall day--so better enjoy it!
I had a nice weekend with visits from Cindy, Kathy R., Kathy B., Diana (and we went for a walk) and Sharon Nutini (who had stories from her son, Matt, in China).
The wonderful meals keep appearing and we are well supplied and fortified.
Love and thanks to all,
Sharon

Enjoy the sunshine Sharon!

I hope you are up and walking around your garden (and neighborhood). Oh ... and resting ... Alex (my cat) says he has proof that this is relaxing.

Have a great week -- the weather looks like it is so supposed to be beautiful in Northern California (don't know about Virginia for Cheryl) -- we'll see about Ghent!

Dreaming of all Your Tommorows...

Sharon, now that Thursday is behind you, back to that rest and rejuvenation! This a perfect visual of where you could escape, I am sure it comes with a cabana boy (although he is probably busy doing the laundry - again). In fact this looks so good I think we should all join you!

You know the saying, when the going gets tough, the tough go to Bora Bora! We can dream...

Glad yesterday is over

Thank you for all your support yesterday...I made it through with flying colors and am so relieved it is over. I had the option of staying the night--but of course chose to get home! We were home by about 6 p.m. and was enjoying a Sous Kitchen meatloaf sandwich by 7:30 p.m.--heaven!!
I am not in pain, just a little discomfort and have to keep my right arm propped up on pillows--so forced into resting and relaxing! One good thing, since I was 'out' they drained some of the fluid from the left breast that has been swollen--so its a bit more comfortable.
It is a beautiful day, so everyone enjoy it, I know I will.
Thanks and love to all,
Sharon

You'll beat this one day at a time!!

Great to hear Sharon came home last night.. way to go girl.. you are our champion!!

Sharon is doing well!

Marc says Sharon is out of surgery and in recovery. But you know Sharon, she's doing so well, they might let her come home tonight! Hooray, we can all take a big breath now. Sending all our love to the Becker clan!

Sharon ,
If the beautiful sunrise and morning here in Charlottesville is any indication of how your day will go today, all is well. You have been on my mind all morning, and I will hold you in my thoughts and prayers throughout the day. I know we all will. Feel our energy and love wrapped around you as you have your surgery. We are there.

Breast Cancer Awareness Month

OK, its my chance to preach...it is the 2 month anniversary of my cancer diagnosis...what a ride this has been--but thank goodness it was diagnosed when it was. If you don't know the details, I found the lump (which later turned out to be two lumps) and had it checked out. In my mind, I knew it was nothing, since I had just had my annual mammogram in April--but better be a good girl and check it out. 20% of all tumors do not show up in mammograms--that was my case. An ultrasound and then a biopsy were performed and showed cancer cells.
Now to all of my female friends and relatives (male friends pass this on to your wives, mothers, sisters) I want you to do what I didn't do--perform self examinations of your breasts on a monthly basis--today would be a good day to start. Do not rely on an annual exam. I don't care if you are 25 or 85--all women are at risk, whether you have a family history or not. If you find anything that is a questionable--please have it looked at. The statistics are just too high--1 in 5 women in the bay area--1 in 8 nationwide.
You are all too precious to me!!
Love, Sharon

Kudos for my Dad

My dad was honored by San Mateo Rotary for his years of service--check this website if you are interested--I am extremely proud of him. www.sanmateorotary.com
--Sharon

Comfort in many forms

Thanks for the pictures Teri, of the outside world--and parts of the country you are traveling to...soon it will be Belgium, right? Thanks for the t-shirt--you choose the color!
Thanks Cindy for the thoughts about comfort...I am receiving those feelings. I had nice visits from Teri, Kathy R., Paula, Cindy, Kathy B. and Diana in the past week. My brother, Phil, is stopping by this afternoon--after taking care of our parents this morning.
The latest on Thursday's surgery is that it might be an overnight stay since the surgery isn't until 3:30 p.m. Will be glad to have this over.
Besides all the things Marc is doing for me, we have now added walks around the block and he had to go sports bra shopping for me! What a guy!
With love, Sharon

NY is in the middle of Fall

with the leaves changing and the temperature in the 30s ... I have to say that I prefer warmer weather (aka ... Hawaii), but it has been wonderful to spend time with Kasey and her friends.

Sharon - I thought you would appreciate that Kasey's sorority (and others at Hamilton College) are having a fund raiser for Breast Cancer and they are donating the money to some type of Breast Cancer Awareness program ... so Sharon ... pink with white writing or white with pink writing? I am sure you need a t-shirt that has all the Hamilton sororities listed ... if you don't pick a color, I will pick a color for you.

And for joy ... I am attaching a picture out the window of the Science Center from Hamilton College. Not quite the same as the pictures from Hawaii, but still beautiful. (Cheryl - maybe in Virginia the leaves have started to change as well?)

I hope all who read Sharon's blog are well ...

Comfort

Sharon
This week my wish for you is comfort...
If I had to sum up Friendship in one word, it would be Comfort. Adabella Radici
So go find it! Take a walk in the beautiful sunshine, watch (and report to us) all the DVD's you can, read the wonderful books you have beside you, and enjoy the company of your wonderful husband and family. Hopefully you will get lots of that elusive sleep.
Find comfort in the friendships you have developed through the years. This is your time to rest, relax and rejuvenate! Another week and another doctor visit:-)

OCTOBER 5TH

Today was my dear sister, Susan's, birthday. We always had such fun together. I miss her in some way, every day.
Diana, thank you for the pink toe tribute! You are sacrificing your plum for pink--you make me smile!
I am so spoiled. Teri provided me with this laptop to access the blog and loaded it with entertainment and pictures...although I kept trying to use the TV remote as a mouse!! Marc bought me a wireless mouse and a new Iphone! I am amazed at the technology of all this--OK Nadine, probably won't be improving on my Excel skills--but will know how to entertain myself!
Speaking of entertainment--highly recommend new DVDs "Forgetting Sarah Marshall", "Sex and the City" and "Run, Fat Boy, Run"--but remember, I am a shut in!!!
However, I am planning a walk around the block today--just like when I started running!!
Thanks and love to all,
Sharon

After my spending part of my day with the always delightful Ed and Mary Jo (Sharon's parents) I got a pedicure. In a few weeks, I am hoping Sharon can share in that luxury. I thought I would pass along my support to my girl, Sharon. I had painted my toenails pink! So that the last thing I see at night and the first thing I see in the morning are my happy, pink toes and it will bring a smile to my face to think of Sharon. Sending good vibes your way! Love, D

Another day

Why am I not surprised that Cindy Paulazzo and Kelly Rippa share the same birthday! Happy Birthday Cindy.
I went to the doctor yesterday--all is healing well. I only have to wear the binder for another 10 days. Marc, Matt and I went to visit my parents and had lunch with them. It's my first non-doctor outing!
Got Sex and the City from Netflix--such a great fun, feel good movie!
Love to all,
Sharon

Hi my friends

Happy New Year to you and your family too Teri--thanks. Loved the pictures from my friends at Sous Kitchen--I miss you all too. Susan, from Sous Kitchen brought me all the current trash and fashion magazines yesterday--let me know if you need to know the dirt on anyone or want some fashion advice. Also loved the lack of memory shots--Cindy!

I continue to do well--seeing the doctor again today. As any you know that have had surgery, sleep is an elusive state--during recovery. Finding a comfortable position is next to impossible and then throw in pre-menipausal hot flashes--it's hell. Nights are very long....but morning comes--the sun is out and nice hot cup of Kona coffee makes everything alright.
Talk to you soon,
Sharon

When I grow up ...

Sharon --

I saw this commercial today (okay -- didn't really see it -- but the tv was on and yes, I am working on my grant), but I heard the music and looked up .... the music was "When I grow up ... I want to be an old woman" ... that is for you dear (and the rest of us on the blog -- but maybe the men would like to be old men?) -- turns out it was a commercial for Kaiser (which I am not a member) and for mammograms. We want you to be an old woman with the rest of us -- 

Keep building that strength!

P.S.  For those of you who have not seen this commercial - you can see it on youtube at 

Hugs from the Sous Kitchen crew!

The crew at Sous Kitchen is missing you Sharon.

Eat well, be happy and dream of turkeys.. :-)

Memory Problems, Us?

Three friends were discussing the trials of getting older.

One said, "Sometimes I catch myself with a jar of mayonnaise in my hand in front of the refrigerator and can't remember whether I need to put it away, or start making a sandwich."

The second friend chimed in, "Yes, sometimes I find myself on the landing of the stairs and can't remember whether I was on my way up or on my way down."

The third one responded, "Well, I'm glad I don't have that problem; knock on wood," she raps her knuckles on the table, then says, "That must be the door, I'll get it."

Just a little thought to brighten your day. Our memories could be worse, and probably will - much, much later!